Hello! I’m here with my weekly recap of training for my 43rd marathon, the Dublin marathon on October 29th.
If you missed it, I shared a recap of my recent visit to Marrakesh- catch up here!
Okay, I’ll get on to the recap!
Monday: Rest from running. After returning from Marrakesh the day before, I was happy to get some extra sleep. Dog walks, core + lower body strength after work.
Tuesday: Tempo Tuesday! 4×7 minutes moderate with 2 min jog in between, 8 miles total.
Wednesday: 7 miles before work with a stop at “It’s Bagels” on Regent’s Park road; there are very few bagel places in London, so when a good one opens, its wildly popular, and usually this place has a very long line, but I ran by right when it opened at 7 am, so I was the first one there! I picked up a bagel for Dustin and one for me for an anniversary treat.
Wednesday marked 15 years together! Time flies.
While I waited for my order, this older British woman approached me and first complimented my legs, saying I looked “proper fit” but then went on about how my upper body was “too much” and if I wasn’t careful, I wasn’t going to fit in shirts anymore, that I should dial back the strength training…ummm…okay? Why would she feel that it was necessary to tell me her thoughts on my body? I was caught off guard and didn’t say much back to her, but I’d be lying if I said it didn’t bug me…I jogged home with my bagels, thinking of all the comebacks I wish I would have said. I hate that I let it bother me when I am generally content with my body but no one is 100% secure where that sort of thing wouldn’t catch them off guard.
Anyways….the rest of the day was fine, I worked from home as I had a dentist appointment. I’m still so happy with my dentist/hygienist here; they are SO thorough and I feel like I get an incredible cleaning here. I know the old stereotype is that British people don’t have good teeth (here I am upset about a comment about my upper body and then I am repeating bad stereotypes…) BUT I think my dental care here is better here than in the U.S.!
Thursday: Morning miles with my friend Susan from the Mornington Chasers. She splits her time between London and Florida, and is heading back to Florida for a few months, so it was our last run together for awhile. Of course, it was a very London morning, rainy the whole way!
This is another art installation in Regent’s Park that we ran past:
Friday: Through work, we had vouchers for free classes at Soul Cycle, so two of my coworkers asked if I wanted to join them for a Friday morning class. I know you’re not supposed to do new workouts during the taper, but I knew I could dial it back during the class and I wanted to be part of the fun. So I jogged 3.8 miles from home to the studio in SoHo, took the class, and then tubed home afterwards to work from home. Nothing against Soul Cycle, but its not my workout of choice, but it was still fun to do with friends.
Saturday: Last long run before Dublin- just 10.3 miles. It was pouring essentially the whole run. I was drenched, but hey, it was only 10 miles.
After the run, Dustin and I went to Southwark Cathedral for the Museum of the Moon– this artwork has been making the rounds around the world, so I thought it would be neat to see. Crowded, but still cool.
Last that evening, we had a little spa day booked at Aire Ancient Baths for our 15 year anniversary. Aire has locations around the world (Chicago, NYC, Copenhagen, and more!)
We booked the pools + a couples’ massage. It was neat! Though I wouldn’t recommend going on a Saturday, as they were too busy and overbooked. Our experience was meant to be 90 minutes and we were there 3 hours…which is probably fine, but we had hoped to grab dinner afterwards and needed to get home to the pups, so we were in a rush.
Sunday: 4.5 mile trail run in the Heath with Ruth and Dustin, before Dustin headed to Heathrow for another work trip. I’m not tagging along this time though, since we have Dublin next weekend.
We were treated to sunshine finally after so much rain!
I followed the run with some core and upper body. I won’t do much for strength the rest of this week other than core, stretching, and maybe some light weights.
Summary: 42 miles of running, 2 days of strength, 1 spin class
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NO! Just, NO! To that woman and her comments. They were all about her an nothing about you. You are amazingly fit and look great from head to toe. That woman was just a b*tch. Seriously. WTF. To riff of Christine D’Ercole, I hope you have handed her back HER baggage and are not letting it weigh you down. Or just throw it out the window. Or torch it.
I am so excited for you about Dublin! It is going to be beautiful and I hope you have an amazing time!
Thanks Coco, I know you’re right that I shouldn’t let it bother me. Easier said than done!
Wow who would have thought that a British woman would be so forward and caddy?! I am pretty sure she was jealous of your amazing body all around. I am not what I would have said back either but wow.Happy anniversary to you!
Totally right, it was very un-British of her!
I’m sure it would have been nice to come up with some instant zingers to say back to that rude woman, but sometimes it’s best to take the high road and say very little. For what it’s worth, you look amazing and like a very fit person. She was probably just jealous.
Good luck next week at Dublin, have fun, and share lots of pictures!
I know, getting into a little fight would have only made it more of an issue, but I do still wish I would have at least said something like, “I’m sorry, could you repeat yourself?” just so maybe she’d repeat and hear how rude it was.
42 miles is your taper!?
Mine will be 20.
What an interesting trip. Thanks for sharing your pics on IG.
Good luck. Next time you blog, you will have run Dublin.
And I agree with Coco and Deborah. You look amazing!!!!!!!!!!
Everyone’s body and training plan is different! There’s no wrong way, you do the plan that works for you!
And thank you, you are very kind, though I feel like it seems that I was looking for compliments, but I definitely was not doing that by sharing the story!
FIRST OF ALL, I can’t even believe that busybody. Why would you ever say something like that to someone??? It’s incredibly rude, AND I’ve never thought that your upper body looked out of proportion (???) AND after reading that I looked closely at the photo of you after your rainy run, and your upper body actually looks amazing. I actually have to laugh… you won’t be able to fit in your shirts, WHAT? The whole thing is preposterous. (On a side note- how were the bagels? I’m curious to hear how a bagel translates in London.) Oh, and happy anniversary!!!… Read more »
busybody- yes! That’s a term I haven’t heard in a while, but she certainly was. I haven’t had any trouble fitting in my shirts yet, but I guess I do avoid certain styles that accentuate my broad shoulders…anyways, the bagels are QUITE good and I understand why there is always a line! It’s not like bagels don’t exist at all, but its the good places like this that are harder to find!
Yay, welcome to Dublin week 😉 I’m really excited for you, Jessie!
Sorry for the rudeness of that woman. As you probably know, insults form others are usually more about them than you, but still.
Happy Anniversary!!
Thanks all around Kim!
Ok, that woman was just rude. Her comments would have bugged me too. It’s nobody’s business about our bodies and what they look like. Although I did laugh about your comment about the teeth. Last week on the morning news, there was a story about a retired British teacher who is a champion Battle Rapper (something I had never heard of, but there you go) and her teeth were not good. So then I was thinking about the stereotype, lol
Good luck with your marathon next weekend!!!
I know, I don’t really understand how someone would think they should tell another person those things. It wasn’t helpful…
Yikes, what a comment from that lady! As for the teeth sterotype, did you see Austin Powers? There was a super funny line in that movie about British teeth that I always think about when that topic comes up I hope the rest of your taper goes well and you are ready to go on race day!! Best of luck!
Haha, of course I’ve seen Austin Powers! I do think things have changed, or at least everyone I work with seems to have really good teeth- most people do go to a private dentist though, vs. the NHS. The dentist I’m raving about is private.
Wow, one week left! Time flies! The marathon must be the day after we fly back to Dublin (but we arrive by midnight or similar).
Happy 15th anniversary! But WTF. that comment from the lady? It really pisses me off how people think they have the right to say anything about other people’s bodies. Be proud of your muscles! Being fit means having grit, self-control, determination and so many other good characteristics (that I bet the lady doesn’t have).
I hope you’ll enjoy Dublin and get decent weather.
Safe travels back to Ireland!
Thanks for the kind works Susanne. I was taken aback by the woman, that’s for sure.
The weather is looking pretty good for a marathon- nice and cool! Maybe some rain.
That woman! We’re meant to be reticent and polite here for goodness sake!! Odd it’s a woman as it’s usually men of course – my friend Jenny had a guy stop his car to give her weight-loss tips once!! Happy tapering!
Right! It’s very unlike a British person to approach a stranger like that. That added to why I was taken aback, no one talks to strangers here!
I’m sorry your friend Jenny had to deal with those comments. Wow.
Too much? Are you kidding me? How incredibly rude. I too go blank when people make comments like that, and then rehash it with witty comebacks. Sigh. Happy Anniversary to you and Dustin and cheers to race week!
It was hard to let it go as I jogged home with my bagels…Just like that, a random stranger can knock you down a few notches!
That is so weird about the woman — I thought the British in general didn’t get personal with strangers. I guess times have changed?
I’m really impressed that Dustin went to a spa with you. My husband doesn’t even want ME to massage him — that’s okay, the more for me. 🙂
You are all ready & I’m excited for you!
That is generally been my experience, that British people don’t engage in small talk with strangers…she blew right past small talk!
Dustin likes massages and treatments!
Ew to that woman. People need to mind their own business. I’m sorry she made you feel badly.
I can’t believe it’s just one week! It’s going to be amazing!
Happy anniversary! We celebrate 17 years in November!
17 years! Congrats Jenn!
Happy anniversary. Times flies indeed.
You must be getting so excited for your race. Sounds like you’re ready!
No words about that lady that commented on your body. Wow. The audacity! A compliment is nice but she turned it right back around with her unsolicited “advice”.
Yes, it started off nice but went downhill quickly!